Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

I get a lot – and I mean a LOT of questions – from students asking one thing.

They have LOTS in common. Being yummy is just one thing.

Specifically, how can the language patterns I teach translate into Spanish, Swedish, Samoan, Swahili, Scottish, Serbian, Slovenian, Sanskrit, Shan, Sedang, or other languages beginning with S or the other 25 letters of the English alphabet?

While the patterns work “as is” in English, something might get lost in the translation.

Sure, I get that. But hear this.

First, foremost, uppermost, and important-most: think in terms of principles and concepts.  

Some of these things are not going to directly translate, like the ambiguities, etc. I understand that. 

The basic principles of capturing and leading a woman’s imagination and emotions through what you get her talking about and how she talks about them are still completely valid.

Sure, this might involve actual work – whereas the regular dating frame is somehow easy?

Let me just say this:

Concentrate On Just Doing A Few Simple Things

Rather than trying to translate the patterns, take the principles that the patterns are based on. It’s sensory-based descriptions, talking about the right topics, and opening that place in a woman’s mind.

It’s that orientation, and the idea that you don’t look at people as things. You look at ongoing flows of activity and the processes you want to ignite in people. Those can apply in any language and culture.

In many cultures, women aren’t especially difficult to get into bed.

Opening them up emotionally might be a totally different story, however.

Take Sweden, for instance, as one student asked me about it.

If you approach a Swedish woman on the street and ask her where to catch the train, she’ll be very polite and give directions. Getting her (or most anyone) into deep conversation, then and there: not so much.

However, at a party, at a private gathering, where it’s among friends: different story. The Swedish are very open. As far as sex, it’s a pretty sexually open culture, as far as I can see.

Mostly, you just have to outrun the passive Swedish men who wait for women to do everything. Not so much different from outrunning the AFC in any country or culture.

Be a little less passive and be savvier than they are.

Things will “translate” for you.

Peace,

RJ

P.S. We cover language patterns extensively – in fact, there’s an entire section devoted to it – inside Rapid and Total Success With Women.

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Something to think about when using pick-up lines and language patterns during your conversations with women.

Just saying “nice pick-up truck” might not get her into (the) bed, though.

It’s great to know which of the twin brothers did what, understand intellectually the deeper meaning behind that Discovery Channel documentary, etc.

But simply saying the “right” words will not automatically cause her panties to fly off.

So, if she’s not responding the way you want….

….Before Getting YOURS All Up
In A Bunch, Consider This

It may be the way in which you deliver it. With any kind of patterning, it’s the energy you put behind it.

If your energy is, “I don’t know if this is going to work,” if you’ve never had that experience for yourself or you can’t at least imagine what it would be like to have the experience, then it becomes difficult to talk about it in a way that conveys what you want to convey.

Closer, but the engine still ain’t revvin. Why?

Generally speaking, if you’re having a challenge, it’s possible the person isn’t getting it or it’s not fitting into the conversation. What’s equally and potentially likely is you’re not conveying the kind of energy you want. You’re not leading them in your own feeling to allow them to process the experience.

Sarging Means Being Able To See Into
Situations That (At First) Don’t Quite
Seem Like They’re Going Somewhere

Many times when we do a Sarge, we can’t immediately tell what particular doorway or format is going to be most useful in opening up the responsiveness in women.

Notice I didnt say “getting women to be responsive”.

Women are either going to be responsive or not according to their own psychological makeup.

Much more comfy bed.

It’s our job to get to that response in the way in which we present things, the doorways and vibes with which we present.

Peace,

RJ

P.S. Maybe you haven’t learned to create the kind of intense emotional states in women that MAKE THEM HOT TO BANG YOU!!

At best you create states of comfort and casual enjoyment, which means, nine times out of ten, with the women you really want…

…you wind up choking the chicken instead of stroking the cat!

CLICK HERE and discover how to change that >>>

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Women are dynamic, living and shifting systems that are always, constantly changing.

And if she’s changing into something more comfortable, all the better! he he he (sorry had to)

That’s what makes them loads of fun – but also something of a challenge in order to get them.

It’s not that they don’t make sense. It’s that they’re nonlinear.

They don’t necessarily follow a step-by-step and one, two, three, four and five program.

What you need to do is learn how to generate those different vibes, and then to play – and notice

When You’re Getting Something From
Her, And What To Do With It

The language patterns I give you are designed so you can create any or all of those four different vibes by the way you ask questions, how you play games, what you do with your body and language, and what you do with your responses.

Consistent practice makes these things happen naturally.

These are all the things that create her wanting more from you, but it makes no sense to follow some formulaic 1-2-3 process for when to say this, do that, when to go for the kiss, whatever.

Sarging is an interaction between two people (you and the woman) which means every interaction is going to be different.

Though most women will follow some general behavior patterns, they’re all going to be different.

It’s Like Driving Down The
F@@king Freeway, Buckwheat

If I said to you, “How fast should you always drive on the freeway,” you’d probably say “Do the speed limit.”

69 miles an hour?

Really?

What if traffic was crawling? Would you still drive the speed limit?

Let’s say it was bumper to bumper traffic. Would you still go at the speed limit?

It’s not questions like, “When do I end the conversation?” or “When do I do Twin Brothers, and should I do it before or after Snack Quiz?”

It’s how do you use your conversation, your responses and her responses to generate these different states?

Peace,

RJ

P.S. Just imagine your words going straight to the seat of her deepest fantasies, strongest desires, and wildest passions, so she experiences and links these feelings to you and only you…..

…..compelling her to want to be with you in the most intimate ways within as little as 30 minutes!

Now that you imagine it….make it happen!

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

A student of mine had been hanging out a lot with a female friend of his. Older, looks younger, smart and gorgeous.

Embracing and exuding the spirit and example of the Grey Cat.

Throughout their conversations, he worked in some Sarginess, such as the infamous Paris Hilton joke and some of the advanced patterns on her.

Well, she caught him a few times on the patterns and then said “Stop using that Tony Robbins shit on me. We’re just friends.”

He was telling me this over the phone, otherwise I would have high-fived and maybe even chest-bumped with him because

When A Woman Says, “Stop Using That.
We’re Just Friends” That Could Mean
She’s Actually Feeling It

As in, it’s working and getting into her system.

For reals.

If she wasn’t having a sexual response that kind of jarred her a little bit, she’d just laugh it off.

When it works, she’ll not only give you verbal responses about what you say, but you’ll notice things going on in her body.

It’s not always THIS obvious. But you’ll get there.

She may make a sound to herself, like saying, “Mm.”

She may touch her chest and do a facial expression when she accesses the feeling.

Those sounds, facial expressions and gestures are her self-anchors.

If you know how to spot them, you can fire them off and she’ll never know what you’re doing.

Peace,

RJ

P.S. We have demos of Sargy conversation and language patterns in action – galore – inside the world-famous Rapid and Total Success With Women system.

If you have not yet claimed your instant online access, the only thing standing between you and your results with your women who you truly desire and want to be with, is your decision that today is the last day of the way you used to be.

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Do you know the old story of archers?

They’re walking in the forest and one archer shoots an arrow and gets pretty close to the bullseye. The other archer says, “Let me take you to this part of the forest where I practice.”

Love her aim. Gotta say.

They walk over to another part of the forest. Sure enough, there’s a tree. There’s bullseye after bullseye.

The first archer asks the second, “How do you do that?”

The second archer replies,

“I Just Shoot The Arrow, And Then I
Draw The Bullseye Around It.”

Whoa. Now ask yourself:

Will you automatically not succeed with her if you forget which snack goes in which hand for the Snack Quiz?

If you mix up the Twin Brothers, will she somehow lose her hot, horny feeling and instantly question whether you’ve ever met anyone who was part of a multiple birth and reject you on the spot?

Question the bullseye. DEFINE the bullseye.

Should you slip and accidentally do something un-Sargy, should a tiny bit of desperate supplication slip in before you quickly remember the difference between “nice” and “pleasant” and right the ship, are you guaranteed a date with Rosie and her sisters?

Are you waiting until you have an absolutely guarantee of certainty before taking a bold step forward?

The women are waiting… but they’re not waiting for you to be perfect.

Now, what in Nicole’s negligee are you waiting FOR?

Peace,

RJ

P.S. I’m not only about to prove to you that what I’m saying is 100% true, but I’m also going to give you a life-changing understanding about women that will skyrocket your success with them, forever, regardless of your decision to get my course!

Dear Seeker of Success,

One of my students told me he had to take economic courses three times before he finally got a f@@king clue about those curves.

She can teach some economic curves.

The first two courses, the instructor spent most of their time drawing supply and demand curves on a chalkboard.  Five minutes after handing in the final exam, my student realized he had learned NOTHING he could actually use in the real world.

However, the third instructor spent most of the semester explaining how economic systems work.

The curves were THEN drawn to illustrate the underlying concepts.

My student came of THAT econ course being able to explain how to manage inflation and mortgage rates to stimulate or cool economic growth, how to CREATE the supply and demand those curves illustrate, and even how to reverse a recession.

So it goes, when applying the principles of Speed Seduction® to

Ful-Feel Your Demand Of HER Supply Curve

Will memorized patterns be enough when any of the following happen:

• You’ve tried three word-for-word patterns already but she’s not responding?
• Speaking of which, how do you recognize and use her trance words?
• What if she keeps texting her friends and you need to tell her to put her fucking iPhone in her purse already – and do it in a way that heightens her interest in you?
• Or, shit from 15 years ago suddenly shows up in your thought process and cockblocks your game, when you’re THIS CLOSE to nailing her?
• You’re aiming to take her down to the hottest spots in Bow-Chicka-Wow-Wow City, but she’s detouring the ride into the dreary districts of forlorn Friendsville?
• She’s warm for your form.  That’s not the same as “It’s On“, though.  How do you flip that switch?
• At the last minute, the switch flips off.  How do you push it up again?

She just caught me passing notes to Debbie in the back row. Uh oh. I’m gonna get detention!

See, I could just tell you patterns to follow, word-for-word.  Sure.  That would be easy and simple for me to do.

But without knowing how to handle those curves, your demand will NOT be supplied.

Peace,

RJ

P.S. The New Code is all about creating a deep, personal tranceformation so that your success with women becomes a living work of art – a totally new way of moving through your world that makes women long to have you in their world.

Dear Seeker of Success,

Pretty much every single day, our customer support team gets questions like “which recorded course has so-and-so pattern?”

I get asked this all the time on webinars and group calls, too.

I’ll say here, what I say there:

Memorizing patterns and reciting them to women will rarely, in and of itself, get you laid.

Not unless, that is, you

Make Her FEEL What It Would Be Like To Be
Inside The Experience You’re Describing!

For example, let’s say you’re doing the Discovery Channel pattern.

You’re describing that long, slow, vertical climb. You have to imagine in your mind being on that rollercoaster. You know what I’m talking about. First of all, the pattern has to reflect an experience you’ve either had, can imagine or have watched. Do you understand that bit?

If you’re doing a pattern about incredible connection, in order to make it sound like it’s coming from your experience, you have to imagine what it would feel like in your body to feel that kind of connection.

Also:

Be Sure NOT To Edit Out The “Ums”
and “Uhs” In Your Presentation

When people are speaking extemporaneously, meaning that they’re being spontaneous, they have pauses. I’ll add in a few uhs and pauses to make it sound natural.

For example, I’d say, “Have you ever, uh, felt, like, an incredible connection with someone? You know, that kind of sense of click?”

That’s right: actually rehearse it so that it’s like you’re trying to draw the words from your mind rather than it being something you have memorized. Add in a few pauses like you’re almost struggling to find the words.

This way you

Don’t Sound Like You’re Cold-Calling Her To Sell
Her A New i(don’t-actually-answer-my)Phone

Put some variety in your voice. Have people ever called you on the phone and tried to sell you something?

They say, “Good evening, sir. I’m so-and-so from AT&T Sprint. Tonight, we’re offering ____.”

You can tell, just from the way they’re talking, that there’s a script.

There’s something nonhuman about it. You want to make sure you don’t sound like that.

Finally, SLOW DOWN!

Make sure that you’re speaking slowly enough so she can process what you’re saying.

If you’re speaking a million miles an hour, even if she wants to hear you, she’s not going to be able to.

(For even more on this topic, click here.)

Peace,

RJ

P.S. The “New Code” you will discover in Miami on March 19 & 20, 2016 allows you to apply the methods and techniques in a way that feels much more natural and much less forced.

That translates into many more Mattress Macarenas.

Click here to learn more and claim your early-bird seat (before the rate goes up next week – you heard it here first):

Dear Seeker of Success,

In this post, I’m going to give you a very special gift.

I’m going to give you, word for word, one of my newest Speed Seduction® language patterns – which for now we’ll call “Doing Debbie” because in all these years, we’ve not yet named a pattern after her.

Now, it’s happening.

Could this, at long last, be the elusive “Debbie”?

(I came up with it as a way to correct a pattern a student in my exclusive Victory Coaching program created. He almost got it right, but he phrased it in a way where he had not introduced it properly and included the possibility she would not be able to get what he was saying. both big mistakes.)

Here Is The “Doing Debbie” Pattern,
Word For Word

This is so good I might take this post down soon. So WRITE THIS DOWN while you can still get it free:

You know, Debbie, I was talking to a friend about whether we can INSTANTLY RECOGNIZE A PERSON IS RIGHT FOR YOU(self point) or whether it might take a little time to SEE THAT.

But, if you don’t mind me asking, if you were to STOP….and IMAGINE BEING WITH YOUR IDEAL PARTNER(self point)….or maybe just someone who in that moment you FEEL YOU REALLY WANT….ME….I don’t know whether that’s a really clear imagine….or something you can FEEL REALLY STRONGLY….or both…

But what do you think would be the top 3 things about you that would lead a person to FEEL REALLY ATTRACTED, that have nothing to do with your physical appearance? And once you share yours, I’ll share mine.

There it is, word for word – and guess what?

What will make it work ten times better is when you know how and why it works.

In order to find THAT out (and get my “Flick Her Bean” pattern, that is guaranteed to get her masturbating on the phone and ready to f**k you at your next meet-up with her, like a Coaching student reported this past weekend)…

….you’ll have to come to my Miami Seminar, March 19 & 20.

Bad news: we have 9 seats left.

Worse news: thousands of guys read this blog.

Worst news; I won’t be doing another North American seminar until January of 2017, minimum.

Go here NOW.

Just do it.

Peace,

RJ

P.S. He who hesitates, waits and waits and waits…

Dear Seeker of Success,

This was one of my most favorite “Ross Plays With Girls” demos – exactly the sort of thing you’ll see when you claim one of the few remaining seats at the March 19 & 20, 2016 Miami Speed Seduction Seminar.

(Veteran Speed Seducers® – share in the comments what you saw me do in the video)

Peace,

RJ

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Before worrying about which twin brother said and did what, or what snacks to bring to the quiz…

….focus on what’s going to actually make pick-up lines and language patterns work more effectively:

(UPDATE: we have now opened the doors to the whole shebang.)

Peace,

RJ

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

I get a lot – and I mean a LOT of questions – from students asking one thing.

Specifically, how can the language patterns I teach translate into Spanish, Swedish, Samoan, Swahili, Scottish, Serbian, Slovenian, Sanskrit, Shan, Sedang, or other languages beginning with S or the other 25 letters of the English alphabet?

While the patterns work “as is” in English, something might get lost in the translation.

Sure, I get that. But hear this.

First, foremost, uppermost, and important-most: think in terms of principles and concepts.  

Some of these things are not going to directly translate, like the ambiguities, etc. I understand that. 

The basic principles of capturing and leading a woman’s imagination and emotions through what you get her talking about and how she talks about them are still completely valid.

Sure, this might involve actual work – whereas the regular dating frame is somehow easy?

Let me just say this:

Concentrate On Just Doing A Few Simple Things

Rather than trying to translate the patterns, take the principles that the patterns are based on. It’s sensory-based descriptions, talking about the right topics, and opening that place in a woman’s mind.

It’s that orientation, and the idea that you don’t look at people as things. You look at ongoing flows of activity and the processes you want to ignite in people. Those can apply in any language and culture.

In many cultures, women aren’t especially difficult to get into bed.

Opening them up emotionally might be a totally different story, however.

Take Sweden, for instance, as one student asked me about it.

If you approach a Swedish woman on the street and ask her where to catch the train, she’ll be very polite and give directions. Getting her (or most anyone) into deep conversation, then and there: not so much.

However, at a party, at a private gathering, where it’s among friends: different story. The Swedish are very open. As far as sex, it’s a pretty sexually open culture, as far as I can see.

Mostly, you just have to outrun the passive Swedish men who wait for women to do everything. Not so much different from outrunning the AFC in any country or culture.

Be a little less passive and be savvier than they are.

Things will “translate” for you.

Peace,

RJ

P.S. We cover language patterns extensively – in fact, there’s an entire section devoted to it – inside Rapid and Total Success With Women.

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Something to think about when using pick-up lines and language patterns during your conversations with women.

It’s great to know which of the twin brothers did what, understand intellectually the deeper meaning behind that Discovery Channel documentary, etc.

But simply saying the “right” words will not automatically cause her panties to fly off.

So, if she’s not responding the way you want….

….Before Getting YOURS All Up
In A Bunch, Consider This

It may be the way in which you deliver it. With any kind of patterning, it’s the energy you put behind it.

If your energy is, “I don’t know if this is going to work,” if you’ve never had that experience for yourself or you can’t at least imagine what it would be like to have the experience, then it becomes difficult to talk about it in a way that conveys what you want to convey.

Generally speaking, if you’re having a challenge, it’s possible the person isn’t getting it or it’s not fitting into the conversation. What’s equally and potentially likely is you’re not conveying the kind of energy you want. You’re not leading them in your own feeling to allow them to process the experience.

Sarging Means Being Able To See Into
Situations That (At First) Don’t Quite
Seem Like They’re Going Somewhere

Many times when we do a Sarge, we can’t immediately tell what particular doorway or format is going to be most useful in opening up the responsiveness in women.

Notice I didnt say “getting women to be responsive”.

Women are either going to be responsive or not according to their own psychological makeup.

It’s our job to get to that response in the way in which we present things, the doorways and vibes with which we present.

Peace,

RJ

P.S. Maybe you haven’t learned to create the kind of intense emotional states in women that MAKE THEM HOT TO BANG YOU!!

At best you create states of comfort and casual enjoyment, which means, nine times out of ten, with the women you really want…

…you wind up choking the chicken instead of stroking the cat!

CLICK HERE and discover how to change that >>>

Dear Seeker of Success,

How can you project more sexual things without projecting horniness?

Sexual is “I love f***ing. I’m a sexual person.” Horny is “Oh my god! I want to f*** you.”

The difference is between being sexual, vs. being aroused in the moment.

It’s the distinction between being hungry, vs/ and drooling over a plate of food that you’re waiting to have put in front of your face.

When I say it’s okay to be hungry, but it’s not okay to be drooling when they put the plate in front of you,

I’m speaking metaphorically. 

Being hungry is like being sexual. Drooling is like being horny. 

The Difference Starts With How
You Lock-In Her Attention

What people need to understand is this is about locking in attention. It’s getting her to hook in her attention and really be interested in what you have to say.

She could hook into the vibe or the format, which could mean anything. She could just happen to love quizzes and games. She could hook in to how you carry yourself or any number of things.

It’s okay to be sexual and bring up sexual stuff at the right time, provided you can introduce it the right way.

Who’s Her Favorite Actor?

Think about women having compartments in their minds. There’s the place where they think about fantasy and the place where they think about f***ing.

She has a compartment labeled “hot actor guy,” and inside that compartment are probably a lot of other compartments that you want to open. Just get her to open that door more.  Talk more about it.

For example, my ex-girlfriend was telling me she was watching “Meet Joe Black.” There is a scene where Brad Pitt talks to the girl about love. She said she just lost it completely and had to go masturbate, literally.

Let’s say a woman mentioned this to you.  Here’s what you can do:

Watch the movie.  When I watched it, I saw the Brad Pitt character as being threatening, not loving and mushy. Regardless, I’ll study and copy his nonverbals in that scene, all of his gestures and facial expressions. I’ll stand the way he was standing and see what happens.

What If You’ve Never Heard Of
The Actor, Or The Movie?

See, you’re looking for her strong response or her doorway to a strong response.

If she says the actor’s name, that’s a doorway to a lot of strong response. You just have to open it.

Say, “Wow! I’ve never heard of him. Tell me more about him. What do you like about him the most? What was your favorite movie that he was in? What part did he play?”

Grab hold of those responses as she describes it.

Peace and piece,

RJ

P.S. This, my friend, is where my tested, proven Rapid And Total Success With Women System comes in: teaching you how to predictably and easily create, intense emotional states of lust, fascination, utter desire, and total arousal in the hottest women around, in minutes, even when you aren’t close to being her type.

Dear Seeker of Success,

Students ask me all the time which girl-getting patterns or methods they should use in this-or-that scenario with women.

Three key teachings, upfront:

1) You just need a few to get her alone and close the deal.  That’s the cool part.

2) You must calibrate to her vibe and use the information she gives you.

3) EVERY girl-getting scenario is different.  You must remain flexible and adaptable.

Here’s How Yours Truly, Ross Jeffries,
Hooked Up With A Woman Using These Teachings

So, recently I was out of town for business, having dinner at a restaurant with a woman I know locally. Things were going well.

At one point I was kind of leaning in to her and being funny. She sort of shifted her posture and leaned forward a little bit.

I thought, “It’s time to kiss her.”

Uh-Oh, Here Comes The Interruption
(And How I Made It Work For Me)

There just so happened to be some people at a table, and they sounded like they were from Germany.

She said, “Where do you think those people are from? Do you think they’re German?”

I said, “No. I think they’re from Kissimmee, Florida,” and I leaned in and kissed her.

Then I gave a thoughtful look, as if pondering something, and said, “No. Turns out they’re from Kissimmee, France.”

Now, I Talk My Way Into A Hot
Make-Out Session (Just Like
These Kids Today Do It)

Later, she was driving me back to my hotel. I could feel the tension building in the car. I pulled one of my classics.

I said, “Look. I have to get up really early. If I invite you in, you can only stay for about half an hour.”

(I was overcoming the whole “I guess he wants sex” objection that normally runs through a woman’s mind the moment you ask her back to your place.)

She said, “I have to get up at 5:00 a.m. I really can’t.”

So I replied, I said, “In that case, let’s make out like crazed teenagers.” We started making out in the car.

Then I said, “Do you know what I like? I like standing up against the car and making out. Let’s get out, lean against the car and make out like crazed teenagers.”

So we did.

Some Misguided Fools Say This Stuff
Is All “Silly”…

While they’re talking about me, I’m kissing and making out with the HB10s they would “love” to score with, “if only.”

That’s why you listen to me, not them.

Especially when I score using corny, cute pickup lines.

Peace,

RJ

P.S. Inside Rapid and Total Success with Women, you can easily find and review anything you need to know – at whatever point you may be – in developing and/or improving your skills.

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Dear Seeker of Success,

Watch this short video clip, straight out of Speed Seduction® The New Code: The Next Generation.

As you’ll see, you can cover a LOT of ground in just over one minute.

Peace,

RJ

Dear Seeker of Success,

One of my great students who saw Speed Seduction® The New Code: The Next Generation asked my thoughts on how much he would have to practice each week in order to internalize the language patterns in the collection I share inside the course within, say, the first month.

First of all: how can I say how many hours you need to practice?

It depends first of all on how efficiently you practice.

If you practice inefficiently, you can practice 40 hours and get nowhere.

Let’s Think….Carpentry.

Let’s say you want to hammer in a nail. If I have a nail and I tell you to hammer in the nail but I give you a screwdriver, you’ll work your ass off to get the nail in but you’ll just burn wasted energy.

The important thing is to appropriately utilize your energy.

Secondly, how do you define practice? Do you mean just rehearsing language patterns in the mirror or going out and playing with them with women?

Your use of the word “practice” could be playing a role here, too.

See, there’s practice, and then there’s rehearsal. Two different things…

• Rehearsal is when you talk to yourself in front of the mirror. It’s all good stuff, but practice is something different.
• Practice is when you get out there and use it.

Rather than attempt to devour the entire course all at once, it’s more important in the early stage that you take one thing you rehearse and practice it in the field 10 times, than it is to memorize 10 things and practice them in the field once or only practice one of them once.

Third: one of the things that makes a big difference between guys who really get the skills and guys who don’t is to keep a seduction journal. It doesn’t matter if it takes you more time. You must remain focused and keep your attention on things.

Keeping a seduction journal organizes your thoughts so you can chart your progress and capture lessons learned along the way.

Overall it’s not about how much time you put in but how efficiently you expend your energy.

Rehearsal, practice, journaling.

Peace,

RJ

P.S. The best thing about the “Next Generation” collection? It’s a 100% instant-access online course. It’s there 24/7/365.

And, of course, the dozens of word-for-word patterns included!

Once you’ve mastered one or two patterns or skills, you can go back and select a couple more to master.

Then repeat. Refer back if needed.

CLICK HERE TO SEE IT NOW >>>

Dear Seeker of Success

Within the Sargy teachings of Speed Seduction® you’ll hear a lot about new directions, what happens below me, and how I close off the past so that today is the last day of the way I used to be.

Some skeptics say, “pretty much any intelligent woman is going to pick up on these double entendres and think you’re stupid.  Not for me, thanks.”

That’s a little misplaced, especially when many of my students get vaginally-victorious results just by asking women what they do for fun.

Exactly Right.

As I keep saying, there are certain questions and themes that are most likely to open up the trains of thought, waves of emotion, flows of feeling that lead a woman to feel strongly attracted, aroused, etc.

Knowing how to get these themes introduced into a “harmless” or “normal” conversation is a key skill.

Here are a few of my “tried and true” seduction questions:

• “When you really want to cut loose… escape… indulge yourself..what is it you love to do? And what’s something you’d like to do… but haven’t found a way to try (pointing to myself subtly).”
• “If you were to meet someone… when you just… feel… that… you know… and it’s not just that but also… you know… it’s ON… now… today(nodding my head)… what do you think is the one thing about you that would keep this person coming back for more….beyond just a one time thing”
• “Do you think men understand women? I don’t know if they do, but I think I can explain the psychology of men to women in just one joke…”  (I then tell them one or more suggestion laden filthy jokes!)

Finally, here’s how a student of mine explained, how HE made it work:

Personally I like to ask them about what they do for fun.  1 chick I was sargin went into a long drawn out description of how she loves to ride a motor bike. She was going thru all the motions as well, really describing it and acting like she was on a bike as she pretended to go around a corner making the noises.  You could actually see her reliving the scene out in real time. It was even exciting for me to listen to her describe it so I was kinda getting her to relive what she likes to do most and she gets all those feelings of excitement back as she’s thinking about it and describing it.

I thought it was pretty damn cool it was like as if she was entertaining me

Keep learning.

Keep mastering.

Keep Sarging.

Peace,

RJ

P.S. Inside the Speed Seduction® Secret Training Collection, one of the many video module segments is called “Patterns, Language Skills, And Poetry” – so you’ll get a lot more of what I just described above.

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Dear Seeker of Success,

Over in my Ross Jeffries Elite Student Mastermind Forum on Facebook, one of my students pulled out a classic language pattern from my original 1994 Home Study Course.

When he posted it, I swear I don’t remember ever having written it or created it.

But I thought I’d share it with you nonetheless.

Here we go:

“Do you, did you, you ever go to the zoo and look at a big cat or predator. Do you ever watch people watching predatory cats?

I think the real appeal of the cat is to note that this is something really dangerous, really powerful, but not right now.

At the moment, you feel totally safe with this, but you know at the right moment, all that coiled power can be unleashed and directed right at you.

>Almost like you’re something for them to eat.

And what is that like inside when you walk the line between danger and safety, safety and danger?

And you feel the tug between the two forces deep on the inside such that it opens up an entirely different personality inside?

A personality begins to emerge and come forth. A personality that goes, ummm, I bet you I could pet that tiger and make it roll over and purr for me and only for me, ummm”

Alright, fans.

What are your questions about this pattern? What do you think the major themes are?

Best answer or questions (before Sunday, January 29th, 2017) wins a 20 minute Skype consult with me.

Peace,

RJ

P.S. In addition to the classics, at the March 11 & 12 Speed Seduction seminar in LA I will reveal my brand new, never-been-taught to the general public (up until now) “Airplane Finger Fun” Pattern that is getting my elite VIP students amazing success!

Dear Seeker of Success,

It’s a fairly common issue.

Students of mine who immerse themselves in Rapid and Total Success With Women, or who attend our live seminars, find themselves using the skills, tools, and techniques with women.

The woman responds.  But then the student is left with a “…ok, now what?” feeling.

Case in point (from one of my students):

I did a Sarge. I did seductive techniques such as Roller, Folder, Tosser, the Snack Quiz, and then a seduction question, but I didn’t know what to do after she gave me the answer to the seduction question. I’m wondering about a rehearsal for that.

RJ here. It’s something more than just rehearsal.

The Sargy Follow-Up Questions You Must
First Ask Yourself

How are you noticing her responses when you do these things right from the very beginning?

What kind of energy or attitude are you bringing into this?

How are you demonstrating that you’re playful about this rather than that it’s a task that you have to do well at?

How are you bringing the quality of playfulness into whatever you’re doing, whether it’s Snack Quiz or Roller, Folder, Tosser?

How are you conveying playfulness and warmth with your voice and facial expression?

Here’s Where Prince F@@king Charming
Rides To The Rescue

Ultimately what I’m teaching you, at least in the beginning when you’re first meeting women in the first five to 10 minutes, is being charming.

Part of being charming is bringing playfulness and warmth into the interaction.

How are you conveying that in your voice, the way you speak and your facial expressions?

The first five to 10 minutes is to create a mood of her feeling like she’s enjoying herself, she’s relaxed and comfortable, and that she feels a little bit pulled towards you.

To unpack that, that means that you present a grounded presence. You’re grounded in your body, you’re playful, and you’re a little bit intriguing so she gets it. She wants more.

The main part of that is you being able to feel what that feels like in your own body and to convey that through your voice and in your face.

So, That’s The Next Step To Making
Language Patterns Work

And, until you grasp that and that is the major element in your understanding, it’s sort of like you’re going through the motions.

And when it’s your turn to speak, you won’t know your next move.

Peace,

RJ

P.S. My famous “Ross Plays With Girls” demos at our March 11-12 Speed Seduction® seminar in Los Angeles will let you see, before your very eyes, exactly how all this works.  Click here to claim your seat now >>>

Dear Seeker of Success,

People get involved with Speed Seduction® for a variety of reasons.

Many times, a guy has just gotten divorced or otherwise just gotten out of a long term “real-hate-shun-ship” and is looking to get back in the game.

Often, a guy who has done “ok” with women really sees his time to be single running out and wants to get really good at it and enjoy variety, selection and choice.

And then we get guys who have always wanted ONE special girl, and use Speed Seduction® to get that job done.

Personally, I Don’t Recommend This
“Help Me Get This One Girl” Approach.
(But I’m Making An Exception Today)

Now, stay with me for a moment.

I have found that putting too much importance on any one person can take away from mastery of the skills and it is the skills that really count.

However, not everyone agrees with me and it is not up to me to decide how a student uses the material, as long as he uses it with success and does no harm.

Here is a startling email from a student who got the woman he had been after for seven years (WOW…now, that to me is NUTS, but God bless him) and along the way, got some other women too!

Dear Ross,

I just wanted to send you an email to update you on the success of you Speed Seduction® Techniques over the last few weeks. Before I start I will tell you that the content of this email is 100% truthful. I say this because it seems hard to believe even writing it.

Now, to be honest, the only reason I purchased your course was because there was a girl I had wanted for literally seven years! Yes, now that’s a long time to like someone and them not show the slightest bit of interest in you! Besides this girl had been in a long term relationship with her boyfriend for years.

I digested all the information in the course and decided to put it into action. My first attempt was in a bar, a cute slim brunette with an amazing body.

The first time I did I was so nervous I felt like a complete dork running the Blammo pattern on her.

What I noticed was that as I did it she just went silent and I was thinking, this is how Ross said a girl would go on these patterns so I carried on. By the end of the pattern I started talking about how some guys are so crude and how one person I knew walked up to a girl and said ‘I want to spend the whole night between your legs, giving you the most deep incredible pleasure”.

By this time it was clear she was turned on and her breathing was going haywire. To cut a long story short I ran some more of this and I had her in bed within one hour and she was wild. I have never experienced anything like that.

Now, this was unbelievable to me – I could never in a million years have guessed that this could have happened and it made me feel invincible. The following Saturday night I went out and did 10 approaches and I did it with the idea that no matter what happens I will make this woman feel good about herself.

I didn’t get one negative response.

Ross, that night I felt like a celebrity – I made women feel good, and they flocked around. I got 4 telephone numbers.

Now this may sound good but wait for this. I spotted this amazing girl with incredible breasts and a beautiful body and after an initial approach using (you have the most incredible hair!)

I ran the instant connection pattern and then the blammo pattern. She was all over me and I got her number.

Over the last 2 weeks I have used a combination of patterns on the girl of my life – the girl I talked about in the first paragraph. Within 2 weeks, this girl has left her boyfriend and is texting me everyday asking me when I am going to make love to her. She responded to the patterns better than anybody.

Your teaching has changed my life and I will never be the same again. The work that you do changes lives – but then you know that already.”

RJ here again. Wow, Big Al.  What can I say. Congrats on your success right out of the box!

Now, for everyone reading: note the key here.

He got all of this success by making women feel WONDERFUL.

He didn’t have to bully.

He certainly didn’t have to beg or buy his way in.

No BS or booze mentioned.

I haven’t seen a pic of this guy, so I don’t know if he has big biceps or not.

(OK, all six Bs are covered).

When you capture and lead a woman’s imagination and emotions YOU are truly the one in charge.

And that is the way it really should be.

Peace,

RJ

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